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The validity of palm reading verses fortune telling.
by Joni Lund on 08/28/15
Real palm reading showing what your basic life style, emotional state, general health has been through your whole life. Shows your personaliy tendencies. Habits.
As your values, and choices improve it will change the patternes in your hands. Verses saying what your final out come in life will be.
This is a very helpful diagnostic tool when looking for a type of person whom did a particular crime for example. Or to stop and evaluate your life. Maybe assess it, and take a different course in life. It is a very good tool to understand when meeting people, or when dating for your protection.
What can be assessed: type of work your best suited to by skin, and thumb, what your suspecable to toxin wise, who is the most sensitive and the most insensitive.
The thumb is an indicator of will power and self-control.
Short fingered people less abstract and more hosilitic in knowledge. Little eye for detail. Stiff fingered people ridgid in their thinking.
Long index- lots of self reflection. Want control, respect, & personal input. Short one - dumb. Short middle finger lends to rebellion. Long middle extremely conventional. Long third finger willing to take risks, higher testorone levels, so a mate is important, avoids responsibility
Relaxed or ridigity of hand and skin speaks of sensitivity levels.
People with short little fingers are suspious of sacrasm, tend to handle money poorly. Bent to side equals ability to manipulate language and charm.
Radial loopss show hyper-receptive to others. lotts of whorls individualistic, higly focussd. Highly talented. Simple arches stuborness with skilled hands, seek stability. Tented arches make a person high excitable and intense- teach, enterain, or motivate others.
This is not evil.
Now stating how a person's life will become in the future is a sin. It is predicing the future. The Bible specificly states not to do that.
Because with God, anything is possible, healing, and all things when you are in him and he is in you. With God it is all about life, second chance, your betterment.
Palmistry is a good dianostic tool. A study of physology and skin patterns.
I'll do a palm reading a and a hand writing anylasis for you. See Retail services page. www.jonilund.com
Love & Trust requires surrender.
by Joni Lund on 07/09/15
The head is not the boss, ruler, master, chief, or superior one.
Without the rest of the body the head is nothing. A co-relationship exists.
Love and truth require surrender.
Women's job
Submisssion means: to give man room to step up to the plate.
1. If he doesn't after years it forces the wife into a fall back position.
2. Woman becomes manipulive or a door mat under this situation.
3. Enabler or cover ups.
4. Warrior to push him to do what is right.
Women allow the man"space to assume leadership/guide. Provide. Protect.
Men - the head of household is not the boss, ruler, master, chief, or superior one. It means position in relationship to wife and God. Leader by example.
Man and husband doesn't mean
1. male domination or physical . This is a personal moral failure in marriage. Confusion.
It means he is responsible to STEP UP, to COVER, to Sacrifice.
Men, you don't help a woman by applying what works for a MAN.
The head is nothing without the body, and the body like wise needs the head.
Affliction is a purifer of the heart. thos afflicted are bein prepared for a greater purpose.
Why should a man go to church, it's boring isn't it, what purpose?
by Joni Lund on 06/28/15
The purpose of going to church is to honor God.
1. whorship
2, reading scripture - the very words which will rebuild your mind, then your life.
3. fellowship with other believers, to learn, to help and encourge each others. We become like the people we spend time with and they like us.
4. To rebuild your mind, hence transforming your life.
5. Set a good example to your children, spouse, family, community.
6. To RENEW yourself.
7. To sing praises, to sing music, and dance onto the Lord, REJOICE.
8. Lead his family in the ways of the LORD, set a good example. Be a good neighbor. Strenghten family, community church & your home town/city, country.
9. to help others on their journey to God, Heaven. Through daily things.
10. Ever lasting LIFE. So that when you die, life continues, free of judgement and the law. And will accuminalate with going to Heaven when Yahshua returns to gather his saints.
We are all one people, God's or not God's.
WHY HAVE A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD VERSES LIP SERVICE OR TAKING UP SPACE IN A PEW?
God is in the business of remaking marred vessels into vessels which bring honor onto God.
Ironicly, those broken people show the GLORY of what God can do in someone's life better than the seemingly perfect individual in this world.
Let God cleanse you.
Starting point: look up in scripture from a King James Holy Bible:
God's true name, and great power in the true name is Yahweh. (Creator)
Jesus Christ true name is Yehoshua or Yahshua; meaning son of creator.
He is also know as lamb of God, light, healer, savior, son, Him, advocate, shepard & bishop of souls, judge, lord of lords, man of sorrows, head of church, master, faithful & true witness, rock, high priest, the door, living water, bread of life, rose of sharon, alpha & omega, true vine, messiah, teacher, holy one, mediator, the beloved, branch, carpenter, good shepard, light of the world, image of the invisible god, the work , chief cornerstone, servant, author & finisher of our faith, the almighty, everlasting father, shiloh, lion of the tribe of Judah, bridesgroom, only begotten son, i am, king of kings, prince of peace, wonderful, counselor, immanuel, son of man, dayspring, the amen, king of the jews, prophet, redeemer, anchor, bright morning star, the way, the truth, & the life.
"Book of" Chapter : Verse
1. Romans 5:8 God loves you!
2. Romans 3:10 - 12 Even though you have sinned - He loves you!
3. John 3:16 His love sent His Son into the world.
4. John 15:13-14 His love is seen in Jesus.
5. Romans 6: 23 His love paid the wages of your sin.
6. Revelation 6:23 His love is knocking at your heart through Jesus.
7. Romans 15:13 His love will flood your life when you accept Jesus as your Savior.
Start at step one and continue through step 7 to see how God arragned forthe atonement of your sin through the death of His Son, Jesus Christ.
with confession of you sin to Him in prayer, invite Him to come inot your life and be your Savior and Lord, be in your heart, ask to recieve the Holy Spirit, and knowedge of Him and wisdom.
Pray through our your day about all things. Come to a point where you allow God's will to operate freely in your life.
Read your Bible daily by making it a route so that your life and progress do not fall by the way side scattered amoung the stones and brambles. BUT be prospering fruit on the vine fed on God's word, and a good harvest at harvesting time for the Kingdom of God whom is in Heaven.
Crops when they are ready will be brought into the threshold, through the gate to the King.
We are his lambs, his crops (grain from chaff), His harvest. His vessels. His people.
Vessels which he remakes into a glory for God. Vessels are made of clay, man was formed from clay of the earth in the beginning by God, see Book of Gensis. The Holy Spirit will be your comforter, abid in you (God's temple) when you keep yourself clean. (If you fail to stay clean, start over by repenting(sin no more) and cleaning your house (temple)(restore your mind). Scripture says, The Lord was with God at that time,
If you did not recieve the Holy Spirit at the time of your salvation, have a born again christian pray with you and lay hands on you for such.
Do not be discouraged or mislead, there are people out there whom are ignorant or superstisious even those in the "church". Most are on a different part of the pathway to Heaven then you. And the people whom are not following the Gospels, avoid so they don't corrupt you. We are all his people regardless of race and nationality; and we choose to be in one of two catagories: Following him (for Him, his people), or turning away from Him (against him, choosing not to be his people-delivering ourselves onto Satan).
Remember, you are a NEW born, new man, new creature, through Yahshua. God does not hold your old sins against you now, or your new failure. But to repent means to turn away from doing those sins which would chain you if you allow them to.
Meaning, don't dwell on your sins so they chain or criple you(prorocol son or daughter), REPENT whole heartedly, then move on returning home to God you Father. STAY and DWELL with Him through Yahshua. It is a lot more restful then constantly picking yourself up off the ground and rebuilding your life from unwise living.
LIVE BY FAITH: this means to living according to the Holy Scriptures, even when it doesn't make sense, feel good, or is not what you want. To live with intent, followed by action inspired by that intent. To believe God will keep his promises written therein.
Then LET God handle the fall out, details, the providing your pathway.
Learn to be quiet - to hear Him, learn to be wise - advise in Scripture, LEAN - not on your own understanding but on Yahshua. LIVE on the word of God.
And he will fill you with his breath, and put you on the wings of Eagles.
All for his Glory and Praise.
Amen.
Why should a man go to church, it's boring isn't it, what purpose?
by Joni Lund on 06/28/15
The purpose of going to church is to honor God.
1. whorship
2, reading scripture - the very words which will rebuild your mind, then your life.
3. fellowship with other believers, to learn, to help and encourge each others. We become like the people we spend time with and they like us.
4. To rebuild your mind, hence transforming your life.
5. Set a good example to your children, spouse, family, community.
6. To renew yourself.
7. To sing praises, to sing music, and dance onto the Lord, REJOICE.
WHY HAVE A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD VERSES LIP SERVICE OR TAKING UP SPACE IN A PEW?
God is in the business of remaking marred vessels into vessels which bring honor onto God.
Ironicly, those broken people show the GLORY of what God can do in someone's life better than the seemingly perfect individual in this world.
Let God cleanse you.
Starting point: look up in scripture from a King James Holy Bible:
God's true name, and great power in the true name is Yahweh. (Creator)
Jesus Christ true name is Yehoshua or Yahshua; meaning son of creator.
He is also know as lamb of God, light, healer, savior, son, Him, advocate, shepard & bishop of souls, judge, lord of lords, man of sorrows, head of church, master, faithful & true witness, rock, high priest, the door, living water, bread of life, rose of sharon, alpha & omega, true vine, messiah, teacher, holy one, mediator, the beloved, branch, carpenter, good shepard, light of the world, image of the invisible god, the work , chief cornerstone, servant, author & finisher of our faith, the almighty, everlasting father, shiloh, lion of the tribe of Judah, bridesgroom, only begotten son, i am, king of kings, prince of peace, wonderful, counselor, immanuel, son of man, dayspring, the amen, king of the jews, prophet, redeemer, anchor, bright morning star, the way, the truth, & the life.
"Book of" Chapter : Verse
1. Romans 5:8 God loves you!
2. Romans 3:10 - 12 Even though you have sinned - He loves you!
3. John 3:16 His love sent His Son into the world.
4. John 15:13-14 His love is seen in Jesus.
5. Romans 6: 23 His love paid the wages of your sin.
6. Revelation 6:23 His love is knocking at your heart through Jesus.
7. Romans 15:13 His love will flood your life when you accept Jesus as your Savior.
Start at step one and continue through step 7 to see how God arragned forthe atonement of your sin through the death of His Son, Jesus Christ.
withconfession of you sin to him in prayer, invite Him to come inot your life and be your Savior and Lord, be in your heart, ask to recieve the Holy Spirit, and knowedge of Him and wisdom.
Pray through our your day.
Read your Bible daily by making it a route so that your life and progress do not fall by the way side scattered amoung the stones and brambles. BUT be prospering fruit on the vine fed on God's word, and a good harvest at harvesting time for the Kingdom of God whom is in Heaven.
Crops when they are ready will be brought into the threshold, through the gate to the King.
We are his lambs, his crops (grain from chaff), His harvest. His vessels.
Vessels which he remakes into a glory for God. Vessels are made of clay, man was formed from clay of the earth in the beginning by God, see Book of Gensis. The Holy Spirit will be your comforter, abid in you (God's temple) when you keep yourself clean. (If you fail to stay clean, start over by repenting(sin no more) and cleaning your house (temple)(restore your mind). Scripture says, The Lord was with God at that time,
If you did not recieve the Holy Spirit at the time of your salvation, have a born again christian pray with you and lay hands on you for such.
Do not be discouraged or mislead, there are people out there whom are ignorant or superstisious even those in the "church". Most are on a different part of the pathway to Heaven then you. And the people whom are not following the Gospels, avoid so they don't corrupt you.
Remember, you are a NEW born, new man, new creature, through Yahshua.
Meaning, don't dwell on your sins so they chain or criple you(prorocol son or daughter), REPENT whole heartedly, then move on returning home to God you Father. STAY and DWELL with Him through Yahshua. It is a lot more restful then constantly picking yourself up off the ground and rebuilding your life from unwise living.
LIVE BY FAITH: this means to living according to the Holy Scriptures, even when it doesn't make sense, feel good, or is not what you want.
Then LET God handle the fall out, details, the providing your pathway.
Learn to be quiet - to hear Him, learn to be wise - advise in Scripture, LEAN - not on your own understanding but on Yahshua. LIVE on the word of God.
And he will fill you with his breath, and put you on the wings of Eagles.
All for his Glory and Praise.
Name of Creator?
by Joni Lund on 06/07/15
Many shall learn of Yahweh's name.
Joel 2:32 "Whoever makes his prayer to the name of [Yahweh] will be kept salfe. or "Then everyone whom invokes [Yahweh] by name shall be saved."
When the Bible speaks of "calling upon the name of "Yahweh," it means to call upon Him in all His power and splendor, accomplished through His Name "Yahweh".
His Name means that He will be whatever His eople need of Him at the time. He will be their Protector, Deliverer, Provider Strenghener, Healer, Guide, "Yah" means "I will become," "I will be." It is the Hebrew verb of existance.
We can not expect the same promise and results by calling on the generic title"God", which lacks an such meaning or power. It was Paul who said there be "Gods many, and Lords many," icorinthians 8:5
View of Others
by Joni Lund on 05/09/15
Adversity shared builds treasures. It is how it is done together that counts.
Holding Hurt: gives you a distorted view of others. Boils down to you equals hurt.
If right position in a wrong way then it is wrong approach.
High Frutose Corn Syrup
by Joni Lund on 04/26/15
High frutose corn sryup causes the body to not recognize Full but to feel hunger.
HAPPY COUPLES
by Joni Lund on 04/26/15
Happy couples say "I love You at least 10 times a week.
Establishes unquestioned value.
Hugging your partner with heart't touching stimulates oxycin which equals HAPPY VIBS and ESTEEM, softening personality.
Homosexuality
by Joni Lund on 04/26/15
It is not a sin to have a desire, passion, or need. Those are all legitamate. However, scripture say in is not correct behavior to steal, use body in inappropate ways, not designed by God.
Having a desire is a tempation if it is not a desire for things of God. A temptation is not a sin. It is a warning of the state of your mind, emotions etc.
Acting of sexual desires for the opposite sex, or someone besides your spouse is a sin.
If these sin continue you growth neurons in your brain for that sin; which in turn grows your desire to that pasttime. This is why it grows. And this is way the Bible warning to get a handle on these things early by focusing on God/Chrit so that you grow a desire to do the good the things of God vs. the other.
When you spend a lot of time on a particular activity to the point that you grow neurons for that activity, and develop a deep interest or desire for that activity your body also undergoes a chemical change. This can include a hormonal change.
When you add this chemical change and hormonal change it makes the path to doing the God thing harder. In the case of homosexuality, you can start developing into the other gender chemically.
You see the mind is a very powerful thing. You literally become what you think.
Therefore the Bible instructs you continually on how to BE. The Corthinian church was full of ex-homosexuals, alocholics, sex addicts and etc.
You are not alone, and this is nothing new for God to heal.
What it shows is there is something in your past (usually childhood) which is missing or damaged and your reaching out. Reach out in a good direction now. Call a local church and start your recovery.
Read the Bible a lot especially the new testament.
Is it from God
by Joni Lund on 04/24/15
"When God starts to make an impact in our lives, he gives us a DREAM. Starts with a dream.
Eph 3:20 if it is from God it will require FAITH. Cause if it is from you, you can do it yourself.
Stage 2 Starts doing something about the dream. Every 10 dreamers, 1 makes a decison to do.
Takes an investment: time, $, reputation, energy. Let go of security move forward. Let go of past. If you want to walk on water, you have to get out of the boat." rickwarren.com
Man, Woman, or Child . . .
by Joni Lund on 03/21/15
Man, woman, or child, who is responsible, who is at risk, and who pays?
Who is responsible?
The buck first starts with the Man. God ordained the honor, responsiblity, and the ability to do the job of taking care of women and children to men. This is man's special gift to men. Provide and protect. Scripture:
The trouble is men are using their gift from God to selfishly serve themselves. Hence, being a phyiscal and financial threat to women and children. And in every society where men, drop the responsiblity and the honor of providing and protecting women and children that society will cease to exist as a nation/people under God. History is full of example of this.
Man and secondarly the woman are responsible for the children.
Order of responsibity: Man, woman, grand-parents, relatives, neighbors, community leaders, state, nation,etc.
Who is at risk?
Man: His heart hardens, as he tries to fill the emptyness in his soul that providing for women and children would fill. So he shifts from one woman to another. Often while consuming drugs and alcohol; becoming a larger liability and danger for all. Bastard children are often the result; an the down ward inherited cycle partpituates. Finacially he is broken lower and lower. Mentally he hardens more. Spititualy he is in full rebellion and denial. So he projects the responsiblity to other, them main target " the women" made him do it. As his problems go on he is more dangerous and gets further and futher from God. So in an escence he is in hell, and his fruit is death. Further weakening the society like a virsus.
Woman: Woman with a sin based selfish man will be held down with the man's problems and demands. So the potential of God's gifts to her being developed or encouraged to grow usually are hampered or snuffed out. Bitterness & poverty are often the fruit in this situation.
Children: The children become like the parents. Copies of prespective genders. So these unproductive patterns become a generational curse.
City/State: Time and finances are consumed dealing with crimes, prison systems, and legally forcing the man to do as he should as a provider and protector of family. Legal enforcement feels like a prison sentence verses the blessings it should be. Resourses are further taxed with providing for the assistance for single parents, and no parent families with the simplest of basics. People in this down ward social spiral tend to never get out of it. And very often it becomes a generational curse. Proverty and hard times.
Nation: This on a wide spread bases is crippling to a nation. It undermines the principles which gives a nation it's strength, and prosperity. Coheasion. So the country slips into waste.
Who pays?
Man, Women, Children, town, community, country, and world.
What is at stake?
Everything including: Peace, family, life, liberty, happinesses, presperity, relationship to community, family, relationship with God, your soul, and you & your future. Your neighbors and mine too. The generations to come.
How can this be different?
True repentance and understand of what is going on.
To understand we must have a true understand of how God set our society's to operate in a productive manner.
God: Seek first his Kingdom, and all things will be added onto you. This command is for everyone.
Man: repent and obey the order of how God designed this. This will open you up to greater blessings then you will ever realize on your own. A great feeling of worth, and well being. Including very regular sex for married men.
Woman: understand that the responsiblity is man's. Repent of thinking you have to do it yourself. Reward man when he gets it right. Be an assistant, and a comfort; not a drug or an excuse. Women: do not sign yourself up in situations were men are not following God's statuates. This will go a long way to holding men up to God's standards. The message will be clear that women are of value, verses available to the strongest animal. As sex will not be available in every dark place, but available in context of positive environment for men, women, and children. Women will be able to prosper in their God given gifts unique to each individual as well.
Children: In a positive God first, and stucture of responsiblity children while have the best, including examples. Therefore, they will be copies of GOOD, copies of the prespective genders. Generational blessings.
With this stucture; families are strong, towns, cities and communities thrive, state are strong, and nations grow and prospure. The people are happy.
What do women want in relationships?
by Joni Lund on 02/20/15
1. An even exchange with men.
2. They want their love reciprocated back in the same way they give it.
3. They want their romanitic lives to be rewarding for them as they make it for their mates.
4. They want their emotions they turn on full blast to be return on with full blast to be returned with at least the same intensity.
5. They expect the premium they and their partner put on commitment to equally adhered to by both.
6. Equally valued.
7. Equaled respected.
8. They want men to be forth coming with their intentions. So we know if we should move on or not. We don't want to invest our resources on a dead horse. Our time, money, energy, emotions, would then be spent on someone whom reciprocates. Thus not draining or using us. And we'd be happy too.
Without recipication, the women will eventually shut down and withdraw, eat, or fill her life with something else. Being her spouse isn't "involved with her."
The problem is most men are playing games of deciect to perpetrate greed and selfishness "the show'; until they become men of God.
Men count on women being mislead deceived about their tactics or mind sets.
If a man is living in iniquity; God will not hear your prayers. (This includes abuses/wrong attitude to wife and children.)
Commitment levels in men decreases with co-habitation. (See: Sexual Suicide.") If men marry they are more committed, and do more. More involved. Loyal.
A man will profess in public what you are to him. Friend means friend. Your name, means your nothing. But if his actions match the title he gave you, you may have a future.
Once a man has claimed you he will support you; otherwise he is using you. He will not withhold on paying the necessary bills, and he will never make you ask or fight for the neccessataries to be paid like utilities and food. A real man will put fun stuff for himself behind providing for his family. Everything he does will be to make sure the woman he loves has what she needs.
If he is doing anything else he's a man with a boys mentality or not truely your man.
A man whom feels inadquate will bury himself in drugs, alcohol, and affairs. Men with boyish attitude and anger issues will make life very hard and painful for you on purpose. And should also be avoided.
Men use "god digger" to be selfish and to avoid obligation in the family environment. Avoid those men.
It is your right to expect and foresee a man providing.
A real man will bring home his pay check, pay the bills and if there is anything left over, then go play.
If you are low on food and he has no money, he will give you some of his food until he gets money, he'll get extra work, he'll ask friend to help out. If your vechile is broke and he's broke, he'll ask buddies to help. And be Mr. Repair man around the home.
In money or sweat equity he will be there. If he loves you he'll be there with no limits.
If someone disrespects you, he will correct the behavior. He will not steal from you, tell rumors around town that you have Aids and tell towns folk you stopped running your side business. If he loved you he would help your business thrive!
Every man is supposed to protect and be willing to protect the women and children in his family or immediate surrounds. To be a man whether he is married or not. This also means defending their honor. This comes in the form of advice. Or performing tasks that are too dangerous for the women or children. Putting himself between rough looking people/traffic and you.
Another problem with the course of society is that there are too many single mothers out there. The children don't have a father figure to teach the boys to be men and the girls how a real man loves. Hence the boys become counterfits and preditors to women and children. And the girls fall for fake men. Preditors.
For the men shrekers out there, your women must teach and hold you up to standard and demand that you deliver on your manhood. She must except nothing else or you have to go.
Women and men both want to be able to let their guard down when they get home! Both need to be told, what they do is appreciated.
When a women is in love with you, she is loyal and can't see herself with anyone else. For men loyality is love.
Men will go about a month without sex. Then they travel. If you have a off week & he loves you he'll be patient. But anymore than that he'll have sex elsewhere. A man expects to get as much sex in relationship as he got while dating you.
A real man will clear up things in the evening at home so his wife has the strength and mood to have sex with him regularly vs leave her with all the responsibility while he rests. Share the chores.
Support - slap the back, good job for working.
loyality - sexually he's yours.
and sex - regularly.
As a woman, if my man didn't recognize this for me, I won't be into him sexually.
Men are into finding solutions to the problem, not talking about it.
Remember ladies, it is about giving the man a reward for fixing your problem.
Pat his pride and walk his dog.
Relationship between man and women is about maintaining a balance of understanding what makes each other happy and each trying to provide some of it so each feels like they're in the reationship with the other.
Women should avoid starting conversations with "We should talk." Makes men closed and defensive.
Anytime a man approaches you "he wants something". Usually is sex, or to figure out how to get sex for you.
So he looks for two answers 1. will you, and 2. how much will it cost him. Money or requirements for his prescence. And if you ask too much whether he can get it on credit.
If your not setting the ground rules, it tells the man your open to his rules. Including how often he calls, or what he gives back.
When a man approaches act like you know he's after sex. Let him know what it will cost so he can pay up or leave.
Ask your self once this man gets you, will he throw you back or keep you. What is he looking for. What complements him?
Your standards he has to meet start the moment you open your mouth. You determine by your control over your image, conduct, and how you let men talk to and approach you.
If a man isn't looking for a longterm relationship, going out on dates and giving sex won't change anything.
What women can do right:
1. Command respect.
2. Dress appropriately but sexy.
3. Dance, but don't let him feel you all over.
4. Take his number, but don't give him yours.
5. Hold a respectful conversation with him and his mother.
6. Let a man know up front where you want the relationship to go.
7. One, we can introduce to our friends and family.
8. Woman whom smiles and takes care of herself is generally happy.
9. Show appreciation for what he does.
10. Loyality.
11. Know how to validate him by what he does, how much he makes, and how he is.
Is he interested:
1. Extremely superfiscial conversation which never deepens.
2. Laughs off your requirements- its no, if he abides by your requests then -ok.
3. Takes your number but calls longer then 24 hours.- No.
4. Dates you - but only pays his half. No.
5. Not punctual - No.
6. Never meet his friends, family, co-works. NO Or excuses why not. No
7. Cringes at the mention of children. No.
8. If he isn't together financially, mentally, emotionally, or sprititually he's a no. Just gaming.
9. If he encourages an open relationship, he's just mixing up the sex.
A man needs rules to live by with you. Be clear and fair of what those rules are.
Women will put up with alot, cheating isn't one of them!
The biggest reason for a man to cheat is that he can and there are a lot of women out there willing to sleep with a man even if he's married.
Everyone knows if you commit to be with one person in marriage your whole life, that is it wrong to have an affair. Even men know this.
So, women, let it go, or else you won't be able to be in the next relationship you have.
Instead of telling him what you like, tell him what you don't like!
Then he has the joy of descovering you, and you get to see what he is really able to do.
Make the men be really clear up front, what they want out of his life and his relationship with you.
Ask him"
1. What are your short term goals. No answer run. You don't fit go. Does his plan have direction and reachablity or is he a lazy dreamer? Goals or no plans - run.
2..What are your long term goals? Day by Dayer run.
Remember a man always has a plan, if not ; then he's just trying to game you for sex or money.
3. What are your views on relationships? Great for phone, if he has problem with this run. Family, Mom, Dad, & God.
4. What do you think about me? (After a few dates and before you have sex). He answer will reveal his plans for you. If say generous, then ask what makes me generous etc. If he can't go into depth of why it is just surface thing.
5. How do you feel about me? After a month of dating, and if he can't answer he feels nothing, move on your being played. Your looking for in depth -wonderful from the answer. Not the "I think your cool." If he doesn't go it to it , stop with the "Blind HOPE."
If a man's intentions for you aren't pure, he won't bring up these questions.
Is your man a narcistartist/psychopath? What should you do?
by Joni Lund on 02/11/15The psychopath carefully selects the most indifferent & heartbreaking way imaginable to abandon you. They want you to self-destruct, cleaning up any loose ends as they begin the grooming process with their latest victim. They destroy you as a way to reassure themselves that their new target is better. But most importantly, they destroy you because they hate you. They despise your empathy & love, qualities they must pretend to feel every single day. To destroy you is to temporarily silence the nagging reminder of the emptiness that consumes their soul. You never have to wait until your relationship with a narcissistic or toxic, emotionally abusive partner is over to begin working on your recovery if that were true most victims of this type of PASSIVE-AGRESSIVE ABUSE would never have a chance. THe book stop spinning and start breathing, will guide youo towards recovery whether you're in the relationshipor out of it, maintaining "NO CONTACT" or struggling withit, suffering through a narcissist's silent reatment or fighting off the narcissist's inevitable hoover. At no time, is it ever too early or too late to address the fragility of our own mental health. The time to mentally break free from a narcissistic or sociopathic partner is now! THe biggest obstacle to leaving an emotionally abusive relaionship is the fact that our memories can keep us addicted to the nonsense. We develop a relation amnesia that becomes an agonizing codependency that inadvertently cause us to become the narassist's enable. We cling to the impossible, hoping that the relationship will get better or that the narcissist can be fixed or that, realizing the error of his ways, the narcissist will change on his own . This is a false hope orcestrated by teh narcissist himself and, if we allow it, the narcissist will instigare our suffer until the end of time. The truth is that a narcissist only returns to a relationship again and again to ensure hat his partner never recovers. do youself a favor, come to terms with your conflicting beliefs about the person that is hurting you. You can learn to manage the memories so that what you remember is the reality and not he fantasy. Once you do this, you will find yourself letting go with much less sadness . . .. . . . and your life will begin to make miraculous changes.
Is your man a narcistartist/psychopath? What should you do?
by Joni Lund on 02/11/15The psychopath carefully selects the most indifferent & heartbreaking way imaginable to abandon you. They want you to self-destruct, cleaning up any loose ends as they begin the grooming process with their latest victim. They destroy you as a way to reassure themselves that their new target is better. But most importantly, they destroy you because they hate you. They despise your empathy & love, qualities they must pretend to feel every single day. To destroy you is to temporarily silence the nagging reminder of the emptiness that consumes their soul. You never have to wait until your relationship with a narcissistic or toxic, emotionally abusive partner is over to begin working on your recovery if that were true most victims of this type of PASSIVE-AGRESSIVE ABUSE would never have a chance. THe book stop spinning and start breathing, will guide youo towards recovery whether you're in the relationshipor out of it, maintaining "NO CONTACT" or struggling withit, suffering through a narcissist's silent reatment or fighting off the narcissist's inevitable hoover. At no time, is it ever too early or too late to address the fragility of our own mental health. The time to mentally break free from a narcissistic or sociopathic partner is now! THe biggest obstacle to leaving an emotionally abusive relaionship is the fact that our memories can keep us addicted to the nonsense. We develop a relation amnesia that becomes an agonizing codependency that inadvertently cause us to become the narassist's enable. We cling to the impossible, hoping that the relationship will get better or that the narcissist can be fixed or that, realizing the error of his ways, the narcissist will change on his own . This is a false hope orcestrated by teh narcissist himself and, if we allow it, the narcissist will instigare our suffer until the end of time. The truth is that a narcissist only returns to a relationship again and again to ensure hat his partner never recovers. do youself a favor, come to terms with your conflicting beliefs about the person that is hurting you. You can learn to manage the memories so that what you remember is the reality and not he fantasy. Once you do this, you will find yourself letting go with much less sadness . . .. . . . and your life will begin to make miraculous changes.
How to change the high/low beam in a chevrolet Aveo 2008 to 2011
by Joni Lund on 02/11/15
a. Have rubber gloves or paper towel to handle new bulb(NAPA# BP9003) to give it a longer life. (not bear hands or greasy.)
1. Put car in park.
2. Tur off engine.
3. open hood, and use hood open support.
4. squeeze the white clip directly behind the light assemble and gentlely unplug.
5. next remove the rubber cap over back of assembly. Do not use tool as it will tear or rip rubber cap. Cap does have a 1/4" lip at its base on the outside of the pocket it covers. Finding that or twist and pull by putting the pressure on the outter rim of rubber cap.
6. Inside you will see the bulb is held in by a spring. Squeeze the ends of the spring together enough to un hook on both sides. It should have a catch on the third anchor point. Leave in.
7. Remove the old bulb.
8. Insert the new bulb. Note the anchor prongs on the bulb plug are spaced to that the bulb only goes in one way. Don't force. speady the bulb in postion.
9. Bring springs down over the bulb, squeeze spring to get it back into the space it came from.
10. Double check you did it right.
11. Insert the rubber plug back on. Be streagic as to where you put the plug tab, so that next time it will be easy to remeady removal.
12. Gently put the power plug and cord on the new bulb prongs.
13. Now test the high and low of your new bulb to make sure it works.
14. Congradulations. Successfully done!
Joni Lund
My life is hard and miserable and I don't know why!
by Joni Lund on 02/02/15
This may shed some light on the subject.
The Creator is Yahweh. Son of Creator or Messiah is Yahshua.
It is important to use the name of Yahweh and Yahshua, as there is power in the name.
Elohim used interchangably between false deities (such as Palestinian Baal, also known as Moloch, Bel, or Saturn), angels, and to mankind and may have been referred to "Creator" in the form mighty ones, or mighty one. But since your soul is at stake, use the true form of Yahweh verses God. And Yahshua verses Jesus Christ. There was no J in the Hebrew, nor other languages until late 1600's. So that dispells Jesus or esus (deity name). There was a child born of a sister and her brother combination whom; were rulers in Greek and Roman times. It was ordered they were gods. They had statues made of mother and bastard child (Horus called Saturn, Father Time, God of Time, greatest evil) put in the pagen temples. This young child also killed his father so that he and his mother could rule. Mother Egyptian goddess Isis (Aset or Eset). (This statue and symbolism practice was brought into the Roman Catholic church to gain converts. Now called Madonna and child, Mary and Jesus Christ.)
Christ is derived from Roman rule under Constantine and Roman gods.
The Bible strictly says have no God. So why would the Creator call himself a idol from poured form? IF he is pourn, why does it say he hears our prayer, sorrow, praise? You need eyes and ears for that.
It is a case of bad transulation, and rewriting of Bible. Slaves from pagen lands often where the scribes working under a king.
God is a molten image, from pouring. Is not living. My Creator is not with out ears or eyes, heart, spirit, nor arms, so I'll stick with Yahweh.
When Yahweh is trying to give us something NEW we can not hang on to what we have, with both hands/clenched fists. Ask Yahweh guide you to new or not certain perspective picture.
40 years God's people wandered because of disobedience (sin). Ironicly, still today it takes a man about 40 years to come around to God's way of thinking.
God purifies his people via
Step 1.) Purify - by hardship & trials,
Step 2.) Multiplication - All areas increase.
Step 3.) Blessings - Blessings come.
The hardship and trials prepares God's people for the TASK AHEAD.
These storms come because we are hangin on to something God does not want in your life. (Something which would get in your way of fulling your life/his plan.)
Tranformation in LIFE or HEART comes by RENEWAL of our Heart via the Word of God. God never leaves us or forsakes us. We turn our backs on him. A hard HEART, or Tr to do things on our own . Trying to run from him; the truth.
To and understand God, we must have the in dwelling of the Holy Spirit in us. Referred to as "Born Again". Or else we not truely christians.
People whom will be christians or peopel whom are TRUE christians will be disciplined for rebellion/sin/not going as God directs. BUT a true christian will return to God, and sin less.
A true christian whom lives a carnal life intentionally, will be disciplined, dying young. And the promised reward for a obedient life on earth and in heaven will be LESS, reward will be small. Hardtimes.
A true christian will feel bad, have a consious when they sin.
Disobedience will not be tolerated forever by God.
God always welcomes back his protocal sons and daughters with open hands, palms, arms.
When we follow after God, our desires change. Our ambitions change.
The inward change of HEART starts to become an ourward noticeble thing. Or should be.
Lifestyle, values, people associate with etc. god's people are willing to learn grown. Growth in itself is a form of life. Like seeds, fruit trees, buds. New born. Etc.
Thought: When one fears God, one is looking at him from behind. Turn away, left, leaving.
To have a relationship with someone, you face them, spend time in their presence.
Titus 1:16 They PROFESS that they know God: but IN WORKS THEY DENY HIM, being abominable, disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate."
Sex and Drug Abuse
Eliphas Levi and Aleister Crowley (founder of withcraft organizations; cocaine and heroin openingly supplied) pushed sex and drug abuse. Both of these men figured prodomiently in Satanism and Free Masonary. Levi's drew Bapomet. Satan, like Baphomet often pictured as a hermaphroditic deity having male phallus(winged staff) and female breasts. Levi stressed using majic to induce sex and drug use.
As you can see, real dangers. We must keep deligent watch over our families, that they don't fall into these traps!
Eastern Star Temple is a gateway into Free Masnary. Satanic whorship under a veil of secrecy. See Hidden Secrets of the Eastern Star and Free Masonary
Root cause of death via police shootings
by Joni Lund on 01/28/15
In 2013 half of all police shooting ended in death of subject.
What is bringing on this rash rain of mental illness?
Toxic bodies, mainly from food based toxicitys. The rest from PCBs. Since the majority of the public isn't eating live foods, they are very malnourished and when their bodies build up with toxins mental illness is very common.
Mental illness can be greatly improved via detoxicifation and quality nutrition.
Brought on via The very basic cause for the increase in mental illness is malnutrition!
When you are toxic and ill you need alot more nutrition than average Joe. But processed foods are not going to fit the bill.
Even the basic vegetable base in the raw will require suger amounts of veggies. The best detoxiers are hot water and herbs, because they are power packed with nutrition. ETC ETC.
All this stress from wild world, poor nutrition, and LACK OF TRAINING FOR THE YOUTH OF OUR NATION IN FAMILY ENVIRONMENT is cause a major crisis in this nation!
We are seeing a complete generation now raised mainly by machine projecting media. Children can't discern good moral media from the negetative. And lets face it, how often do you see GOOD news?
My personal opinion is the fasted way to loose your mind is sugar free sodas & other . There ends up being a chemical reaction because of your bodies temperature, causing a poisoning of body which loads the brain with methanol and formaldehyde. Chemical used to embalm the dead humans.
With methanol poisoning YOU WILL LOOSE YOUR EVER LOVING MIND! Especially if you suffer from a disorder called ADD or ADHD. (This is what I am sure happen to the young black man in the beginning of 2014. The basic description of his behaviors screamed a young person with ADHD!!!!!!!! A medical condition and know close to him noticed the signs. )Have seizures, or a host of other shit happen.
Then if you get too carried away outside your home now we have to worry about people being shoot to hell.
MEN What do women want?
by Joni Lund on 01/22/15
A few years ago there was a movie with a couple of popular actors in a movie, What do women want?
The movie started to get close then deverted to a one night stand. Obviously written by a man.
What do women really want, family structure.
1. is family structure - it is at the core of everything we do.
2. Man - to love, care for, protect, and encourage her.
2b. Women & Men polls show that women want sex 46% more often than men. Married church goers have more sex, and more satisifying sex lives. People whom attend church weekly, are physically healthier, have less stress, are generally happier. Better attitude towards everythying.
3. Children
4. Career
Back to 2b. Than why are men getting the sex they desire?
A woman wants a man to desire to be in a committed relationship with her. Providing a safe home together, and family. NOT BY HERSELF for him while he is in a trance.
This means they work together for the goals the family.
This means they work on the home together, including care and repairs.
This means they work on the care of children and assests together.
Then it also comes down to if shes tired and the above isn't being met and your overbearing, selfish, and plain inconsiderant; her sexually desires for you will be deminished to gone depending how self orientated you are.
A good meter of your generousity or selfishness is; the more generous you are with the little things and giving of yourself to the home environment the LESS NAGGING your wife will be. And she will be more forgiving when your generous with your time and personal involvement. Personal involvement means not just the actions and your prescense, but your geniune care, concern, and love for your family expressed in the glad hearted helping and general affections showed and given to each family member. Your wife see all this and rewards you back for your love. Then she'll desire and lust after you with a fire you can't understand.
Believe me! Then Love you put into your home life should be given back.
Theraphists and marriage counselors commonly go with the women view point on the condition of the relationship; because women are relationship orientated and are aware of the shape it is in.
Women covet the gentle speach, comments, and the protection men offer us when they talk to us gentling and see to it other do so too.
We covet the protection of men from phyiscal harm, and from physically over challenging chores.
We covet the protection of men, from financial poverty, from the headaches of business, from help around home to care for it via skills saving money.
We covet the protection of men, from the nasty world in general.
We crave the safety and protection of a man.
Women do not do well when it is men that pose the most danger and hardship in their lives. This is the opposite of what nature intended.
In societies where men are socially & family strong and protect women, that society thrives. Any wonder why America is in the crapper now? Men, self orientated, lust orientated, are not protecting women, children or community, but instead have turned preditory and are feeding off the weaking of their species; women and children.
This is assuming all parties involved donn't have alochol or chemical addictions, porn or other addictions to deal with.
Speaking of the unnatural lifestyles. When men use porn and masterbation to often; they will develop a limp penis when having sex with a real live women. Women whom masterbate develop conditons where sex with a man's penis doesn't stimulate her enough.
Heart attacks are from
by Joni Lund on 01/14/15
Heart attacks are from oxygen deficency if you were born with a structurally sound heart in the first place.
SO WHY, do people continue to consume canola?
canola is the plant rape seed. Rape seed was not allowed in the products to be consumed by farm animals or humans until about 50 years ago, because it has an acid which breaks down the heart muscle tissue in the being which consumed it. Rape seed (canola) was used ONLY as axile grease. This explains the high increase of heart attacks.
When it eat a toxic substance, especially a bad oil, it costs your body extra oxygen to remove the free radical from your body.
Also, How does your body deal with free radicals?
The ones which are not immediately removed are bound up in fat and stored in a cell. The body uses the making of fat to protect itself from poisons, virsus, bacteria, etc.
In order to handle free radicals you must have a full supply of great nutritants in your system: enzymes, antioxidants, amino acides, minerals, and vitamins.
Once you get to a certain level of full fat cells, the fat cells will automaticly generate estrogens. Estrogens make us fat. Make beef cattle fat & poultry fat. Then we eat the poultry or cattle and we gain more.
Pasture raised beef, swine, poultry are the healthy option.
Otherwise now days beef, wild caught unbreaded fish, organic eggs, are the healthest store bought proteins.
We are seeing a higher and higher incidence of citizens eating more fast foods, fried foods, desserts. TO make a profit businesses use the cheaper oils, canola, cotton, corn. All bad for you.)
Forget the peanut butter, see a previous blog!
Cells Phones and battery operated phones do what . . . . .to you.
by Joni Lund on 01/13/15
You aura is appromiately a 18" energy field around your body.
Weak aura can cause you to catch someone elses headache.
When you have cell & battery operated devices within 3 feet of your body this is what happens:
1. they distort your aura. Make dents in or completely penatrate your aurea. This means it area of your head is penetrated you will feel beat down, attacked, and the worst get ill or mental illness. Even suicidial while this whole in your aura exists.
2. opening in area of throat, equals damage or failure of throat organ called the thyroid gland. The hormonine regultor of the endocrindone system.
3. Near heart physical illness or relationship problems.
4. Solar Pelxus area, spiritual problems, emotional wounds, and energy & health problems.
5. Sacral, physical aspect could be colon cancer, or reproductive problems.
6. Root or Base area, equals problems in your family relationships, trust or daily issues, whole system distribence/failure. Earth energy field will pull you down or repel you.
